Why dating system is a mess

tl;dw we're too picky

      " Why are relationships so hard today? Why do we fail at love every time, despite trying so hard? Why have humans suddenly become so inept at making relationships last? Have we forgotten how to love? Or worse, forgotten what love is?

       We're not prepared. We're not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We're not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We're quitters. All it takes is a single hurdle to make us crumble to our feet. We don't let our love grow, we let go before time. ... (and so on), "

says the website below 👇

"Why Modern-Day Relationships Are Falling Apart So Easily Today" (link: www.mensxp.com/relationships/r ... sily-today.html )

Does this portray ourselves? Or, does this sound familiar?

KISWONO442 tulis:

tl;dw we're too picky youtu.be/o41pygk5npg

The top men itu maksudnya yg sprti apa? Yg termasuk kaya? Ganteng?

Chat di hp sdh mjadi kebiasaan hampir semua org, sehingga saat pdkt pun yg diutamakan adalah chat. Krn di saat chat tsb kita tdk bertemu dng org nya, ini menyebabkan kita terobsesi dng fantasi2 yg kita ciptakan sndiri misalnya bhw org nya itu senyumnya sangat ramah, bhw dia mengucapkan kata2nya dng mesra dll. Akibatnya pas ktmu lgs kita syok krn faktanya ga sesuai fantasi kita. Org nya kurang ramah dan ga mesra. Kita jd agak kecewa dan mungkin beralih ke lawan jenis lainnya, lalu chat2 doang dan...semua yg di atas terulang kembali.

FAJAR882 tulis:

   " Why are relationships so hard today? Why do we fail at love every time, despite trying so hard? Why have humans suddenly become so inept at making relationships last? Have we forgotten how to love? Or worse, forgotten what love is?

    We're not prepared. We're not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We're not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We're quitters. All it takes is a single hurdle to make us crumble to our feet. We don't let our love grow, we let go before time. ... (and so on), "

says the website below 👇

"Why Modern-Day Relationships Are Falling Apart So Easily Today" (link: www.mensxp.com/relationships/r ... sily-today.html )

Does this portray ourselves? Or, does this sound familiar?

Benar... banyak yg masih belum melepas ego. Tidak mau berkorban dikit untuk menulis "tentang diriku" misalnya, jadi cuma buat satu dua kalimat yang itupun (mohon maaf) seperti ingin dipesan sebagai wanita BO. Contoh: "kirim pesan saja yang ingin serius".

Cowok, cewek, menurut saya harus punya sesuatu yang bisa diberikan. Apapun itu deh. Kadang pengorbanan ini yang sulit untuk dilakukan, mungkin benar kata bro Edwin di JK, banyak cewek maunya "plug and play" aja.. meskipun tidak semua seperti itu.

Esensi cinta menurut saya itu ada tiga: pengertian, pengharapan, dan pengorbanan. Ketiga ini ga boleh lepas. Cinta yang TIDAK didasari oleh kebenaran Alkitab alias ketiga esensi itu.. akan menjurus ke KEDAGINGAN. Daging maunya yang enak, tidak berani berkorban.

FAJAR882 tulis:

      " Why are relationships so hard today? Why do we fail at love every time, despite trying so hard? Why have humans suddenly become so inept at making relationships last? Have we forgotten how to love? Or worse, forgotten what love is?

       We're not prepared. We're not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We're not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We're quitters. All it takes is a single hurdle to make us crumble to our feet. We don't let our love grow, we let go before time. ... (and so on), "

says the website below 👇

"Why Modern-Day Relationships Are Falling Apart So Easily Today" (link: www.mensxp.com/relationships/r ... sily-today.html )

Does this portray ourselves? Or, does this sound familiar?

Menyimak dulu nih

dating system is a mess.. not a date w/o system..

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there is no love in this life (.. love others as you love yourself.. an impossible command for humans to carry out).. so if there is just one thing that hurts others then there is no love (you wouldn't hurt yourself even once. would you.? - this is love. a true love..)